Sexual Status: Own Up To Your Current Condition; Denial Of Sin And Lack Of Ability Is Like A Curse!

Females, if you are a virgin, be glad and remember that your present sexual status is a requirement for marriage. However, on the other hand, if your virginity has been wasted by a source of having sex and getting dumped, you would have to remain single to be at peace with God. A female that has sex with a second man becomes a partaker of fornication, having a two-male cognizance, and she must not marry or live in an illicit relationship and continuous state of unacceptable sex.

So, whatever your sexual condition may be, own up to it. Don't lie to yourself and others. Deal with it. Don't be misled by false ministers. The virgin has the opportunity for marriage, and the non-virgin female does not. Make the best of it if you can't legitimately have a husband. Sex damage control is the only non-defiling solution. Single, penetrated and abandoned females can learn to be happy and avoid fornication or continuous, marital sins. Confess your sins, and be forgiven.

However, don't fall into folly. Don't believe those who say a girl can lose her virginity and be restored as she was before. It is not true. A female can't be given virginity twice. Some have reportedly even tried to have hymenoplasty, but it cannot fulfill the rule of purity and harmony with God, natural and biblical revelation. You can only be a virgin once and eligible for marriage! (Living chaste and suffering the death of a husband would be the only exception.)

Proof of virginity settles slanderous remarks of a dissatisfied husband: “Then shall the father of the damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel’s virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate:” (Dt. 22:15) The parents of the woman evidently were expected to keep a cloth (see v.17) in case they needed it for proof of virginity and take it to the leaders of the community (in the gate). Do you understand what is required for proof? The male parent was obligated to raise chaste daughters and to see that their marriages were fulfilled correctly, even keeping proof of a daughter's first sexual experience and hymen breakage. However, today, many parents and children lack or disregard knowledge of purity, honesty, integrity, and even required chastity!

“... [B]eing a virgin again, and being myself” Lie:

Links:

Virginity and Chastity: Requirement for Marriage”

Sex Damage Control

Develop a Christian Virgin Testimony

Natural and Biblical Revelation

A Minister's License Can't Justify Marriage

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