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[BIBLICAL MALE BIAS CONCERNING SEX AND VIRGINITY LOSS] Now, the biblical requirement for females to marry is chastity, yet the slightest carnal knowledge may defile a virgin. [Male cognizance factor must be examined. A woman must keep herself from being touched, especially near her genitals. Linda Kirkpatrick made a horrible mistake by associating with Bill Cosby, whom she can't prove he didn't debauch her. A woman needs a convincing testimony of virginity and chastity to offer a husband, not bewilderment. Ladies, beware of trust relationships, even with pastors and ministers.] However, the biblical requirement for males to marry is not the same. There are situations wherein potential male mates-to-be are not virgins. Such persons may have previously committed fornication [an affair with a whore], sexual acts which did not necessarily institute marriage according to the terms previously discussed--(Ex. 22:16, Dt. 22:13-21, 28, 29). Marriage may still be a blessed opportunity for such males, especially upon commitment to honor God. [The male doesn't necessarily lose the opportunity for marriage after an event of fornication, whereas the woman does. Nevertheless, he would be carrying baggage that a female virgin who does a background check peacefully and righteously may not want to live with.] If you are single and you know God would allow you to marry, ask God in prayer to lead and keep you safe in dating. Be holy and patient, and anticipate God's direction and providence; look for these same attributes in the other person also. It is a cherishing thought that every male have a female virgin, and every female a male virgin. [Philip Rivers gives a refreshing, chaste testimony:] The chastity requirement of a virgin female should be recognized by a dating couple, and their relatives and friends; if not, be careful! Friends who do not regard God's commandments are dangerous if you listen to them: Do not let such people influence your life or your date's (he or she should agree) because this very thing would have a negative effect on your future and bring ruin upon you for the rest of your life. Note the different dating characteristics of blessed Jacob, and his brother, Esau, whom God hated. Whole document About the Hesedken site Learn Hebrew |
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