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Finalcall07's
Uncleanness Deception
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Finalcall07's Uncleanness Deception, taken from the description box of the YouTube video “To confess or not to confess” on June 9, 2014. |
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It is important to confess our sins if we have sinned and to ask
forgiveness, from God and also from the person whom we have
sinned against. It is also important that we forgive others
because if we do not forgive those who have sinned against us
then we will not have forgiveness for our sins; because as Jesus
taught us to pray, He said:"forgive us our transgressions as
we have forgiven those who have transgressed against us." Numbers 5:20 But if thou hast gone aside to another instead of thy husband, and if thou be defiled, and some man have lain with thee beside thine husband: 21 Then the priest shall charge the woman with an oath of cursing, and the priest shall say unto the woman, The LORD make thee a curse and an oath among thy people, when the LORD doth make thy thigh to rot, and thy belly to swell; Deuteronomy 24:4 Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the LORD: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the LORD thy God giveth thee for an inheritance. Let's analyze Finalcall07's statement: “But sometimes the other person does not even know that you have sinned against him and it is better not to confess to that person that you have sinned against him unless he knows about it. Especially in the case of adultery where one spouse has cheated on the other, if that person then confesses to his spouse or to her spouse that they have been unfaithful then it can destroy their marriage.” Finalcall07's reasoning is faulty. First of all, he doesn't understand that it a sin for a man to live with a defiled and unclean woman (Dt. 24). Divorce or annulment may be a remedy. By the way, gender is important when studying marital situations. A marriage should be pure, open, truthful and full. He is even suggesting hiding the truth and covering up a sin. A father that gives his daughter to a man should be open as to anything he may think the man would not like about his daughter. After marriage, it is expected of the woman to keep herself pure. Sin will find a person out. Always keep yourself pure so you won't have anything to hide. The Law of Jealousies: There is no excuse for living in marital uncleanliness. God made a way for men to know about their wives: A man has a duty through God and the ministry to make sure he is not living with an unclean woman. Nu. 5.24: the woman had to drink the bitter water that causes the curse. A woman should not afflict her family with her treachery and disgrace so as to want to continue to live with them. The woman telling her man would only be after-the-fact of her previously destroying the marriage through an act of defilement. False advice such as Finalcall07's condones abomination and causes the land to sin. If a chaste woman becomes sexually defiled by another man while she is married to a husband, her marriage becomes destroyed because she no longer possesses the purity and chastity that she once had. Marriage is based upon sexual cleanliness. Adam and Eve had a clean marriage. When marriage takes place, there is an end to the separate life of the male and the separate life of the female. The single quality of life bonds into a marital unity: "they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh” (Mk. 10:8). God's plan of regeneration is of purity, from one entity, as it was with Adam and Eve. If a woman destroys that marital purity, she must tell her husband so he can make spiritual decisions and separate her from making his whole house unclean. Forgiving is required of everyone. However, forgiving does not mean the man has to pollute his whole family because of the act of the woman (even if it was rape). After forgiving (he doesn't even have to wait to forgive!), a man must follow up by putting away an unclean woman so the whole family will not be defiled. It would be appropriate for the woman to confess her situation with the husband so as to preserve what friendship she can, and so the children would not be afflicted with hypocrisy on top of uncleanness. The woman's confession and separation would preserve the rest of the family. Christians can't lead into a path of righteousness without knowledge of the Bible and integrity. We judge all things (1 Cor. 6.2), and we must discern evils such as Finalcall07's tolerance of fornication, uncleanness and cover-up. Contemporary life example of anonymous adulteress and what she ought to do according to moral and biblical standards: |
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Brig. Gen. Jeffrey A. Sinclair's anonymous, adulteress captain, who admitted adultery, should alert her family to her treachery so they can prepare for separation and the proper judgments. The adulteress would be required to live in sexual abstinence to biblically recover from her sexual sin. Links: Fornication Recovery and Damage Control: Abstinence Required Avoiding Sexual Uncleanness and Abomination Non-acceptance of a Defiled Wife Marital Principles for Beginners Beware of neophytes: Genoark, Sanderson1611, Kaykane (at 6 min 35 sec), 1onetheone, Linkowski11, Enoch2
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