The Modern Woman's Struggle with Sexual Sin

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Girl Defined (above) recommended the site of Dr. Juli Slattery, who wrote a book with Dannah Gresh (video on the right: Sexual Purity for Teen & Tween Girls - 1) as her co-author about erotica, intimacy and the longings of a woman's heart.

So evidently, Girl Defined is promoting the sexual heresy of Dannah Gresh also, besides her own lies.

Sexual Purity for Teen & Tween Girls - 1/2 - Dannah Gresh __100huntley

#58: Lessons From a Former Prostitute (Re-Air)

by Authentic Intimacy

Approximate time of video:

Analyzation:

50 seconds:

The guest was a 15 year old virgin and summer missionary. She gave her virginity to a Christian boyfriend, who is a stranger to her today (the time of the video).

Result:

When a girl gives her virginity to a man (consent), she is supposed to either marry him or remain single and never marry another man as long as he lives.

Scripture reference:

It is illusory to think marriage is instituted by mere contract! Marriage is a physical sex act between a virgin female and a male (Ex. 22:16, Dt. 22:13-21, 28, 29)--biblical revelation. The virginity of a woman is proof of a woman's eligibility to marry--natural revelation. The male partner by either sharing or violating the virgin female's chastity becomes either a husband or a polygamist (although legally disallowed in many places), the latter sexual status is in contradiction to a new testament principle of monogamy (I Cor. 7:27). Nature and God's written word, natural and biblical revelation, harmonize as to the enlightenment of the essence of marriage and encourage the continuance of a chaste relationship.

     The once virgin female partner no longer has a justifiable opportunity to have sex with anyone else as long as her first male sex partner is alive--to do so would commit fornication. In the case of the female's first man dying, she would have a justifiable opportunity to date or marry someone else (Romans 7:1-3). Sexual experiences with men other than the first man (while he is living) defile the female and commence a degree of unchastity even if the first man were to die. Marriage is based upon the principle of unity ("one flesh" Gn. 2:24) and chastity.

     Now, on the other hand, divorce is a psychological- physical separation through commitment (I Cor. 7:10, 11): when the act of divorce is put in writing it becomes a public notice.

     So, considering the biblical facts concerning the essence of marriage and divorce, and the world-wide immoral sexual circumstances, there are probably many unregistered (unpublished) marriages (more so than are revealed by statistics, or spoken of) and divorces. Subsequently, due to the disregard of biblical precepts, many unregistered and registered forbidden, but legalized, marriages have resulted.

One minute, 50 seconds:

Consequences: She mentioned depression, withdrawing from normal, good activities, greater suicidal tendencies, and utter loneliness. Suicide is never the answer, and drug abuse will not make things any better, only worse. Nevertheless, girls that lose their virginity and are dumped or left, and continue on to have sex with other men suffer a greater disability to quit their fornication even seemingly more so than a drug addict can quit his chemical addiction.

Four minutes:

Analyzation: She consciously ignored telling her man before she married him that she was not a virgin. That is folly in itself; it was a sex crime that received a death penalty in the Old Testament. She said her male partner didn't know that she wasn't chaste at the time she married him and even later on, but she confessed to him after several years. From her recollection, she even considered herself “pure” while she was being promiscuous and living in fornication with him – a delusion. She said he forgave her and it was like hearing the voice of God.

Judgment:

A partner's forgiveness is not the same thing as God's. Even though the guest's male partner didn't hold anything against her, God expected her to annul the unclean marriage and live a single life. God can never justify fornication. He can't change His holy rules of virginity prerequisite for a female to marry. We live in a day when people override God's laws and make his commandments of no effect.

Although she overcame her fear of rejection and confessed to her man, and felt forgiveness, she still didn't fear God's rejection for her folly. Evidently, it was not due to a lack of super ego because later in the video she advises the young not to give away their purity. It was a demonic influence in the realm of the super ego, which overcame her ego and id. Her need to be wanted by a man more than to be wanted by God is not wholesome.

Ye shall know them by their fruits:

Matthew 7:13 Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: 14 Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it. 15 Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. 16 Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? 17 Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. 18 A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. 19 Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. 20 Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them. 21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. 22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? 23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.

Recommendation:

Repentance, divorce and living as a single mother is necessary for God's approval.

16 Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles?

People eat grapes and figs. They are very healthy and good. But they do not eat the thorns and thistles. Even though fruit may grow beside a thorn or thistle, it is very different. People can not live by choosing the wrong things. They must distinguish and choose right things and avoid or reject the wrong things. As we grow, so does our analytical power, and as we grow as Christians, so does our theological insight.

When a person becomes saved, he becomes a new creature. He becomes a vessel that God can fellowship with and teach. The saved person that learns from God will make changes for the better. He will learn to pick a faithful and chaste wife if he decides to marry, not a whore, not a divorced woman, not an unchaste woman.

Is it possible for him to pick the wrong the kind of woman to marry? Yes. But if a believer makes a mistake, God will convict him of it, and he will want to correct the wrong and do what is right. So, taking it a bit further, if a Christian man or woman commits adultery, can he remain living like that? Not with God's approval. He or she would have to have the illicit marriage annulled.

Christ taught his disciples and the disciples taught the followers (called Christians today). We should beware of accepting teachers at face value: we can always examine what they say with what the apostles and prophets taught. You can examine a teacher's life whether it is bringing fruit of the right things or the wrong things. People's life example tell about their giving good fruit or not.