Daniel 12:3 And they that be wise shall shine as the brightness of the firmament; and they that turn many to righteousness as the stars for ever and ever.
BEWARE: Girl Defined promotes sexual heresy. See their post below to Katrina in the YouTube video: “How to Handle a Breakup in a God Honoring Way” on June 15, 2017.
Hey Katrina! Check out this post that we wrote called, "Lost Virginity: Practical Help to Reclaim Your Future" https://www.girldefined.com/lost-virginity-help-reclaim-future
The two girls Kristen and Bethany, inferred promoters of fornication and defiled marriage through their misleading blog, attempt to befriend and make young and unknowledgeable, and hence potentially pliable, Katrina believe that it is fine to become defiled by one man and then marry another. This type of lawlessness and sexual sin goes on today at a very destructive rate to our fallen society. Fornication and defiled marriage make a relationship that God cannot accept, and the children from such biblically illegitimate marriages have a very hard time learning God's standard for purity and righteousness. Some may turn to drugs or other sinful outlets due to the lack of family fidelity and peace with God.
I had previously posted:
Katrina, " Like if someone's gone farther than they wanted with someone... " is a biblical matter that has to be analyzed. Male cognizance factor is a very important issue when determining defilement. In the worst case scenario, even if a girl has been defiled and abandoned, and can't marry another man because of her loss, life can still be great with Jesus as a single: I hope this gives you some direction in determining your situation, blessings. May God help you find your way and give you proper desires:
In Girl Defined's post from Lost Virginity: Practical Help to Reclaim Your Future By: Kristen Clark is blatant heresy:
A broken past doesn’t mean a broken future. Like any sin, the Bible offers you freedom and a restored future if you follow God’s plan. By you can restore your future.
Although you will never regain your virginity, you can regain your hope.
I know of a Christian woman who gave away her virginity as a teen, but then followed the Bible’s steps to freedom and went on to live an abundant life for Christ. She married a pastor and now works in a wonderful Christian ministry.
What a horrible lie she told: “A broken past doesn’t mean a broken future.” Sexual defilement and a broken past causes tremendous pain and loneliness in the future. When Tamar was raped, the lovely and beautiful daughter of King David of Israel, she could no longer wear her virginity robe and had to remain single.
Once a girl loses her virginity, she must remain single if she doesn't marry the man who penetrated her. You can't follow steps from the Bible to regain your virginity (or hope for marriage) as the misled author proposes, virginity is a requirement for biblical marriage. Once it's gone, that's it. You are not able to offer another man chastity even if you pray and confess 24/7.
The woman she mentioned who was defiled and married a pastor did a dirty work to him too. For instance, a woman who was defiled in the Old Testament and committed folly (attempted to marry a man) was sentenced to death for her evil deed. God has not lowered the standard for chastity due to grace; he has raised it. The Lord Jesus Christ repealed the remarriage law of Moses (Dt. 24:1-3), but he conceded to non-acceptance and divorce (Mt. 19:9) of a defiled woman. Girl Defined's example woman evidently put her confidence in a proclaimed minister who was as deceived as she was. One of the worst things a person can do is put their full trust in an unlearned pastor or erring church organization. The couple should separate, confess their sin and have their marriage annulled.
A little knowledge may only be enough to hurt you if you don't use it wisely. Considering all this life-threatening and soul-destroying nonsense that has been disseminated by Girl Defined, this does make a person wonder whether Bethany is really a virgin or not. Why would she say or agree with her sister Kristen on this matter if she were truly physically a virgin? Is it because of a spiritual weakness and fear of peer pressure or something else? Would she just throw away a testimony of a pure life of virginity and the ability to say she is spiritually and sexually pure for no reason and agree with Kristen's error and marriage-after-defilement doctrine? Bethany also erringly recommended a work of John Piper, who condones prohibited, female sexual uncleanness in marriage: https://www.youtube.com/watchv=fC41SdXBuEQ&feature=em-subs_digest. On the other hand, if she is a physical virgin, as is, a brilliant Christian man could not trust her. Regardless, I hope she breaks her partnership with the chaff and evil of condoning fornication, and respects the law of God and its fulfillment.
Psalms 1:1Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. 2But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night. 3And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper. 4The ungodly are not so: but are like the chaff which the wind driveth away. 5Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous. 6For the LORD knoweth the way of the righteous: but the way of the ungodly shall perish.
1 Timothy 1:8But we know that the law is good, if a man use it lawfully; 9Knowing this, that the law is not made for a righteous man, but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and for sinners, for unholy and profane, for murderers of fathers and murderers of mothers, for manslayers, 10For whoremongers, for them that defile themselves with mankind, for menstealers, for liars, for perjured persons, and if there be any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine; 11According to the glorious gospel of the blessed God, which was committed to my trust.
Many esteemed women such as Girl Defined need to be open to acknowledgment of their ignorance and sin, and perhaps admit their denial of wrong doing by fostering a seed of defilement promulgation. They need to accept that there is a need for more biblical knowledge and refinement in order to teach on such important matters, and repent. Those who promote purity in word but condone dating and marriage after defilement have been deceived. Such trample over God's precept of virginity and purity.
Links:
Pastor Steps Hoax For Re-virgination Or Official Authority
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Wolves In Clothing Of Sheep: Dannah Gresh
How To Live Single After Defilement
Annulment Of A Defiled Marriage
Pastors And Ministers Without God
False Church Drama and Hypocrisy VS Alt Right
Why Rules Are Important: Ten Commandments
Protestant VS Roman Catholic Sex Doctrine