FOOLISH VIRGINS AND FORNICATION HERESY: AVOID GIRL DEFINED LIES!

Heretics Fail God's Fulfillment

There are wise virgins, and there are also foolish virgins. A wise virgin would listen to God's full gospel, not just part of it. She would adhere to what Jesus the Christ said in the third era of the law, the fulfillment era. Jesus said: “For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled.” (Matthew 5: 18)

Divorce Papers Required For Remarriage Under Second Law

The Girl Defined hosts claim they were virgins before they married. I will not argue that point, it isn't necessary. Nevertheless, they promote fornication heresy by saying to the effect that if a female is defiled against her will she is excused from the liability of the sex act – that she is not “accountable”. However, those words are not true. They ignore God's word in part. A little knowledge may be dangerous because it may leave out something very important of the whole. Teachers must be learned. (James 3:1-2) Their foolishness is similar to that of Jonadab (2 Samuel 13:3), who without recognition of and subjection to God's law (Leviticus 18:9-11) caused great harm, and persuaded Amnon, whom Tamar pointed out to him that he would be like one of the “fools in Israel” (2 Samuel 13:13) if he forced her to go to bed with him. Nevertheless, Amnon acted as a fool and against the law, defiling Tamar, but he was held accountable for it. He eventually lost his life for his sin.

Cause And Effect

The effect will demand singleness in cases of rape or seduction if the defiled female doesn't marry the man who defiled her. A woman is accountable (2 Cor. 5:10) for her response to an assault or event. Tamar, the daughter of King David, remained single after her defilement because she could not provide a writing of divorce and could no longer offer virginity to a man. She formerly did wear a virginity robe and was chaste.

Hypothetically, if the Girl Defined hosts were living in the era of the second law (more than two thousand years ago), from Deuteronomy unto Malachi, it would be permissible for them to claim that damaged merchandise or a defiled women could marry, but the divorcee would need a writing of divorce:

Deuteronomy 24:

1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. 2 And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man’s wife.

However, if the damaged merchandise didn't have the divorce papers, which many women who had been raped or seduced (or even willfully consented) did not, then she didn't qualify under this law. Such a person would fall under the penalty of the law of folly if she purported herself as a virgin. That was an act that required execution:

Deuteronomy 22:21

Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father’s house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you.

Nevertheless, Marrying An Unchaste Woman Was Permitted In The Old Covenant, But Not In The New Covenant

Hosea: Marriage Of A Whore Permitted (Dt. 24:2) In Old Covenant

Hosea's ministry circumstances demonstrated Israel's whoredom, and God's forgiveness. Israelites, due to the hardness of their heart, were permitted by the commandment of Moses to marry an unclean woman, including a divorcee. Therefore, Hosea was not breaking a commandment by marrying Gomer even though a wise man normally would prefer a chaste woman. However, his act of marrying Gomer should not be confused with the condonation of accepting a defiled, former clean wife, which was forbidden (Dt. 24.4).

Deuteronomy 24:4 “Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the LORD: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the LORD thy God giveth thee for an inheritance.”

Nevertheless, Jesus the Christ reproved the matter of the law and marital defilement. Marrying a defiled woman or a whore is not tolerated in the New Testament.

Adultery Destroys Opportunity For Marital Restoration In The New Testament

God joined two sexually clean people in the process of Genesis 2:18-24 and 4:1, not an unchaste woman or damaged merchandise with a clean man.

Fornication (Mt. 19:9) gave reason to separate or divorce from the once unity. Every married man has a responsibility to keep his wife under every circumstance, except one: if his wife is unchaste, that is, if his wife has partaken in a sexual act with someone else--this is fornication. Then, and only then, is the husband lawfully (according to the Bible) to put away his wife, and to give her a bill of divorcement. Logically, if a woman, has committed a sin of fornication with someone, a bill of divorcement does not induce her to become unchaste--she has already committed the act which defiled her.

And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

If a man puts away his wife for any reason other than fornication, he causes her to commit adultery (Mt. 5:32). Fundamentally, from a synoptical viewpoint, there are two distinct acts, the one subsequent to the other, which constitute adultery. The first act is a sin of “putting away” because the Scripture says the husband “shall cleave to his wife” (Gn. 2:24); and also, that no one should separate what God has yoked together (Mk. 10:9)--”one flesh” (Gn. 2:24). The second sinful act, “marry another”, is subsequent to the first. It also contradicts I Cor. 7:10, 11. The Lord Jesus explained that going beyond divorce so as to “marry another” constitutes adultery:

Mark 10:10 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. 11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. 12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.

So, clearly, remarriage is adultery and against the teaching of the Lord.

Requirement Of Male Singleness

Only an act of adultery or fornication (work of the flesh, including rape: Gal. 5:19) can tear apart (defile) that once clean unity of marriage, and it cannot be restored, leaving the former husband with the responsibility not to live in an unclean relationship. He simply should live single and not partake in the guilt of uncleanness due to the tragedy.

Pure Marriage Required

God can not approve of a man accepting a defiled woman or a whore for a wife today (New Testament times).

1 Cor. 6.15: “Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. 16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.”

Sanctity of marriage is required. The Apostle Paul makes the sexual and physical cleanliness virtue clear by denouncing the uniting with a harlot, which would include damaged merchandise or a defiled woman today.

DEVELOPING A CHRISTIAN LIFE AND SINGLE PLATFORM FOR DEVASTATED WOMEN
(For Women Who Have Made Bad Decisions Or Are Suffering The Bad Decisions Of Others And Are Willing To Live With Proper Desires For God)

Many girls or young women want to live for Jesus and have chastity to offer a mate. This is very good because it is a requirement for marriage and such amorous women are able to accept romantic invitations from men without hiding their past, or deceiving the male. They have a future for grace and peace with an entertaining and helpful spouse, working together as one unity. However, on the other hand, many females suffer devastation, a former loss of virginity. The latter group doesn't have the advantages as the former. Nevertheless, even though wearing the varied colored robe of a virgin (2 Samuel 13:18) is no longer relevant and dating would be unwarranted, living life as a Christian single can still be developed, and happiness can result.

2 Samuel 13:18 And she had a garment of divers colours upon her: for with such robes were the king’s daughters that were virgins apparelled. Then his servant brought her out, and bolted the door after her. 19 And Tamar put ashes on her head, and rent her garment of divers colours that was on her, and laid her hand on her head, and went on crying. 20 And Absalom her brother said unto her, Hath Amnon thy brother been with thee? but hold now thy peace, my sister: he is thy brother; regard not this thing. So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom’s house.

Satan destroyed great possibilities for Tamar, the lovely daughter of King David of Israel. Sometimes, as people have their own faults, parental integrity, guardianship and community fidelity fails, having an undesirable and unfortunate effect upon the children. Furthermore, to add to human failures and afflictions, the devil has his servants as wicked Amnon and his cousin Jonadab plotting from the inside, within homes, families and establishments. We must always keep our guard up because Satan constantly desires our fall.

1 Peter 5: 5 Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble. 6 Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: 7 Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you. 8 Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour: 9 Whom resist stedfast in the faith, knowing that the same afflictions are accomplished in your brethren that are in the world. 10 But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you. 11 To him be glory and dominion for ever and ever. Amen.

Building a marriage is like building a house, it requires a good foundation. A requirement for marriage is female virginity, except for a chaste widow. Previous defilement can keep a woman from a legitimate marriage. So, in our apostate times when churches are condoning illegitimate marriage and men of God seem to be short in number, let us be very careful as to going along with the crowd on their idea of relationships and marriage.

Losing an opportunity as Tamar can be due to something that is not a fault of the victim, even a sin by others as in her case. Nevertheless, it doesn't destroy a person's ability to be happy with God as a single. God can still bless a person whom Satan's claws of deception and lust have brought great agony. However, a platform of singleness will have to be built, much different than a chaste woman. It will require planning to do all things as a single. Being open to the circumstances and accepting the changes that have to be made is necessary. Even as Tamar went on and lived a single life, so can any other defiled woman. She didn't engage in folly or tempt men as if she wasn't affected by the tragedy. She went a righteous way alone as to not having a mate, but with many and all of God's righteous as friends who suffer her hardship with her.

Avoid Heretics Such As Girl Defined

Kristen is the type of woman that will lie on God. Her words contradict what God says as to avoiding fornication, his holy commandments. I formerly reproved her concerning erroneous female uncleanness doctrine. Anyone should not just take a woman's word at face value; he or she should evaluate it through Scripture study. If a woman claims to be a prophetess or woman of God with a teaching or doctrine and it does not agree with God's written teachings, then you should mark that person and not share her falsehood. Don't partake of her evil and sin of fornication promotion. Shun such people.

After Moses and Kore argued, and the Lord destroyed Kore, the people knew that God is a God of judgment! How can we have so many people that ignore God's commandments and promote fornication, which is condemned by God. Joshua chose who he was going to follow. Christians can't follow Jesus and promote fornication and its proponents like Girl Defined at the same time!

Be like Joshua and choose whom you will follow... Jesus or Satan. The Girl Defined hosts are heretics! They are not faithful leaders. God's judgment is upon adulterers and those who encourage fornication (whore mongering). The covenant of Jesus is more pure than the former covenant. We are expected to perceive the difference between the commandments and guidelines of the fulfillment era comparing it with the former era under Moses. We must lift up Jesus the Christ and His standards.

Remember, we are supposed to follow the prophet that Moses mentioned (Jesus; see Dt. 18:15-19):

Acts 3:22 For Moses truly said unto the fathers, A prophet shall the Lord your God raise up unto you of your brethren, like unto me; him shall ye hear in all things whatsoever he shall say unto you. 23 And it shall come to pass, that every soul, which will not hear that prophet, shall be destroyed from among the people. 24 Yea, and all the prophets from Samuel and those that follow after, as many as have spoken, have likewise foretold of these days.

May God bless you, amen.