DIVORCED SELF-CALLED FORNICATRESS JOGGLES WHETHER SHE IS MARRIED

Terry is divorced so she can't be legally married to a man who divorced her. If she has never known but one man – her late “husband” – perhaps he could divorce from his second marriage and come back to her if he had no former obligations to any other woman before he met Terry. Then she and he could resume their marriage but with a lot of baggage.

I apologize for formerly taking Terry at her word that she committed fornication in college. You can see around 7 minutes and 36 seconds (however, she did not specifically say that she had sex with another man other than her later “husband”), she either is keeping silent about a previous sexual affair(s), or she simply misunderstands what fornication is. She replied to my post in the second video below, “Yes, I fornicated (gave him my virginity) with my husband before marriage, and I repented for it when I got born again at age 45 (19 years ago).” Consummation (or pre-consummation) can only be performed pre-ceremonially through three ways: rape, seduction and consent. If she did not know (have sex with) any other man than her later “husband” and he did not have any former marital obligations, she did not commit fornication, she merely gave her “husband” a physical deposit (her virginity) of marriage to be completed later by officializing it through public notice, which she evidently did by obtaining a marriage certificate.


THE CONCURRENCE OF MARRIAGE IN REGARD TO
CHOICE OR VIOLATION OF A VIRGIN
     Today there are many questions concerning marriage. There are many different views stemming from social, legal, and religious philosophy. From a Christian perspective the biblical law of the Old Testament delineates the boundaries of marriage: the Apostle Paul wrote, "Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth?" (Romans 7:1) Jesus, upholding the guidance of the law, said, "Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfil" (Mt. 5:17).
     Ancient Israel was subjected to the law and the prophets. The church is the Israel of God today (Gal. 6:16). Christians are subject now to both the New and Old Testaments. Monogamy replaced polygamy in the early church, and celibacy was highly honored. [Our world is very carnal during the apostasy and many people have been influenced by Hollywood and myth, even sexually. There are many defiled marriages today, and one of the reasons America is suffering from so many social problems is because Congress can't discern the necessity of pure marriage and legislate law to prohibit and penalize fornication and adultery. The fallen country used to disallow adulterers to become citizens, and now immorality is rampant. People need to learn that they don't have to have a sex partner. The Apostle Paul recommended singleness.]
     Sometimes people think of the concurrence of marriage only as the mutual consent of a male and female, but this perception may be an illusion if the female is not a virgin or a widow--marriage was also instituted to prevent unchastity in ancient Israel. God honors moral-sexual cleanliness, purity and unity in marriage. The Lord upheld the virginity of a woman so as if a male violated her chastity he was obligated to marry her [since he completed the sexual bond with her, the physical part of the marriage unity that Adam and Eve accomplished, who the bible testifies they and the institution of marriage were undefiled]. The obedience, moral cleanliness, beauty, glory, purity, magnificence and innocence of virginity possesses perpetual oversight and protection from the Lord. According to Dt. 22:29, a male was commanded to marry (take for a wife) a girl if he raped her; and it was disclosed; and under the condition that she was not engaged to anyone. He was never able to divorce her. The virginity of a girl is more than a state of chastity before marriage--it is the undefiled housing of potential reproduction of life, significance of sexual purity--God honors its holiness and innocence; and he protected the virgin against impulsive divorce once having married. The Old Testament Law states specifically, "She shall continue to be his wife; he must not divorce her as long as he lives" (Dt. 22:19).


I asked her distinctly, “Did you have any sexual relations with any other men in your life? This would make a difference! If you did before you legally married him it would still be fornication. If you did after you legally married him it would be adultery.” I did not get an immediate reply, so I am left without direct answers.

This beautiful woman may be suffering from distorted views about biblical marriage and divorce. The mainstream churches leave people disillusioned. If she had premarital sex with another along with her now divorced so-called by her "husband", she would not have been offering him chastity, a prerequisite for marriage and he would have had a right to annul the fornication-marriage with her because she was merely committing fornication with him. It would not have been a new covenant marriage. This type of circumvention is condemned in Deuteronomy 22:21. However, it is still not clear because Terry did not fill in the details of her previous sexual life before her marriage. All she really left us with is her misconception of “fornication” and a blurred and vague view of her pre-marital sex in college.

After all Gideon had done for Israel, they spiritually fornicated and followed a false covenant (Judges 8:33). Many Christians have been taught the good things of Jesus but have been influenced and deceived by the pre-trib and fornication cult, and are deceiving others through ignorance of the marital terms in the Bible or their erroneous deeds!

A woman must have virginity to offer a husband unless she is a chaste widow, Terry did evidently have that at one time according to her answer to my question below. For some reason, she decided their marriage was not clean and if it was not because of her, then the husband may have not been doing right according to her. They divorced. She could allow that in some cases but she would not be warranted to initiate it.

I am a Christian and encouraged by God to help others develop and prosper through growth in learning God's principles of sanctity. Marriage is an institution based upon the principle of chastity, not fornication or adultery. Female virginity and sexual chastity for marriage has been established since the Old Covenant (Ex. 22:16, Dt. 22:13-21, 28, 29): The once virgin female partner no longer has a justifiable opportunity to have sex with anyone else as long as her first male sex partner is alive--to do so would commit fornication (sexual immorality). She admitted that she had pre-marital sex but didn't mention others than her “husband”. Therefore, if by any chance she did have pre-marital sex with another than her “husband” she should apologize to the man she brought into a legal marriage and divorce because it would not have been an acceptable biblical marriage. Going around and circumventing chastity received a death penalty for the immorality folly in the Old Covenant. See my sermon "Illusion". However, if she was chaste the whole time and faithful, the “husband” did not have a right to divorce her unless he had previous marital obligations.

Abandoned (defiled) or divorced females are required to remain single and sexually abstinent. This now single woman should realize that if she was unchaste she did not have a right to marry the man she later “legally” married and divorced. She is required to live single now and she should take off the ring she is not worthy of wearing. On the other hand, if that was not the case and she was chaste, her “husband” was at the fault, and if he doesn't have marital obligations before he met her, he should try to reconcile. Men have a righteous bias as to being accepted on a return-to-marriage situation, whereas women do not.

Divorced males (from their once virgin or chaste widow) are required to remain single and sexually abstinent also but if her man did not marry a virgin or chaste widow when he married her, he would have had options if he had not taken her virginity.

Let us keep people like this in prayer that God will open up her understanding and she will get inline with what the Bible teaches, amen. Thanks.

At 35 minutes and 20 seconds Terry talks about a woman having been married three different times and she suggests to her being restored to her first husband. The blatant thing of error is the divorced and remarried woman can't be restored to a former husband after sleeping with another man. If her first husband accepted that and let her return, they both would be committing abomination and defiling the land they live on. (Dt. 24:4) At about 36 minutes and 14 seconds she says, “God loves reconciliation.” There was no way that woman of multiple-marriages could have been reconciled with her first husband with God's approval. She was banging other men for 21 years and had the audacity to reach her “first husband” and attempted to get hooked up with him again – horribly unclean. Also, if Terry thinks an unclean woman as such can be reconciled to a former husband, does this indicate that she herself can exclude herself so as to commit immorality and still be married to her “husband” – she says she committed fornication although she hasn't mentioned other men than the “husband”. It makes me wonder because she did not directly reply to my question whether she had known any other men.

At roughly 23 minutes and 30 seconds she mentions that sexual immorality was “unlawful” even for those who were not Jews. However, note below she says, “Giving a man your virginity is not a marriage for Gentiles.” There is a difference between Hebrew betrothal and Gentile engagement, but once a woman gives her virginity to an unmarried and non-obligated man, she has already made the physical deposit for the marriage. All she has to do to finalize it is have it made official. Sometimes this is done with a ceremony.

There is no pre-trib rapture.

Update:

On 7/1/2024 I posted,

A fornication vow is not a marriage. Miss (the video host), if you did not give your so called husband virginity, you committed fornication with him and he was not biblically married to you. If I remember correctly, you said that you had premarital sex in a video. If that is not correct, notify me.”

Terry quickly replied ( 7/1/2024):

“For the Jews in the Bible, their marriage began at the betrothal making vows of keeping their virginity until the bridegroom came back later to take her to his house and consummate the marriage. Fornication is premarital sex. A Jewish betrothed husband had to divorce his betrothed wife if she fornicated with another man to end the betrothal. Gentiles do not have betrothal divorce as an option since an engagement is not a legal marriage and you can end an engagement for any reason. Once you are married and consummate the marriage, there is no divorce and remarriage. Yes, I fornicated (gave him my virginity) with my husband before marriage, and I repented for it when I got born again at age 45 (19 years ago). Fornication is not marriage, correct. Giving a man your virginity is not a marriage for Gentiles.”


Again, we see here that Terry is denying the physical marital deposit (giving her virginity) as the pre-consummation. (Ex. 22, Dt. 22)


My (@hesedken) reply:

“You said, 'Yes, I fornicated (gave him my virginity) with my husband before marriage, and I repented for it when I got born again at age 45 (19 years ago). Fornication is not marriage, correct. Giving a man your virginity is not a marriage for Gentiles.' That is not accurate. You made a physical deposit on marriage when you gave him your virginity. There is no difference in marriage between the ancient Jews and modern Christians – purity is a requirement. Female virginity is always a prerequisite and the male must not have any marital fulfillment obligations to any other former virgin.

Did you have any sexual relations with any other men in your life? This would make a difference! If you did before you legally married him it would still be fornication. If you did after you legally married him it would be adultery.”

Links:

Illusion

Options after separation from a cultural marriage without biblical founding

Platform for living single

Suicide is never the answer

When divorce is necessary

Beware of the term “covenant marriage”

No Pre-trib Rapture Future Of Israel